I think unconditional love is a big myth that is used to brainwash women into taking abuse from their partners and children as wives and mothers and doing it with a smile on their face! .I don't think that guys have a real dilemma with this concept.

All love has conditions -- except maybe the love you give a baby or a child who doesn't know any better about his/her behaviour.

I don't believe in unconditional love. It's hard enough to believe in a mature love, let alone one that is supposed to love you no matter what. Unconditional love is beyond most human beings and aspiring to it seems self-destructive to me.