I thought of that, in this relationship I entered truly, we both felt from the beginning the love, we said it, we felt like we were together since forever, not a week or a month or 8 months. I had no walls, no vanities, no fears. I truly appreciated him, loved him, cared, convinced him to spend more time with his daughter, with his parents, I gave up my free time with him so he could go see her daughter, to take care of him and his way of life, he did the same for me, that is why is so hard for me to understand anything. I thought that if we aim the same, we go in the same direction in life, I can cope and learn how to stay beside him and tell him that I am here, ready to listen and to help him and us to understand and move together further. But with 10 days, no replies regardless the one that said not at my place, how can I wait, if I don't now if we want the same things anymore? I am torn between waiting any sign and let him be with his problems and frustrations and actions. I feel like I need an answer, so that I know what to do with my feelings and how to move on with or without him.