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Old May 26, 2016, 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006 View Post
I'm not so sure shyness and keeping to yourself and doing your own thing are related. I just don't think being able to choose to be a part of groups or do individual things is tied to it. Shyness only forces one to have difficult time interacting even when it's necessary. relying on a passive trait like shyness to make choices for you like whether or not you are open with others just seems kind of backward to me.
What I'm trying to say is that I enjoy spending time alone... and yet, I find myself in situations where I'm with people and find it hard to be quiet. I see other people around me being quiet (in group settings), and I envy them.
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