I have 2 children. My oldest is 19 and from my first marriage. My youngest is my step son from my husbands first marriage. He's 16. His mother left the picture when he was 3, so my husband and I have raised him without her help for 13 years. My kids keep me grounded and remind me of what is most important to me. I've had a lot of support from my parents and my husbands parents so my kids have had a good life. Not perfect and I would do somethings different if I had the chance, but overall, they are lovely, charming, funny and fabulous kids. I am glad I have them and thankful everyday. Im 41, so the ship may have sailed on having another, but people in my family live till high 90's so the possibility is not off the table. I just need to find true stability first.