I've become so bad at self care that I'm embarrassed to share specifically where I am with this. (Much worse than anybody who has posted on this so far.) I have pretty much let everything go. Like a few of you, part of this is that I don't go anywhere much, and when I do, it's just with family and I don't care how I look with them. But mostly I'm too depressed to care. And of course, being so non-functional makes me even more depressed, it's a loop.

But it's nice to hear that others struggle with this.

--Ceara1010