Relationships do require some work however typically 8 months into relationship is a happy exciting time. Sometimes work start later when people live together and deal with household issues. If only 8 month in there are such conflicts it has no where to go but downhill.

No I don't find good relationship hard at all, sure some tweaking but no, doesn't need to be hard. If relationship is that hard especially in the beginning its not a good sign.

I think the issue is what type of people you want to be with. I personally don't want to be with men who give silent treatment or fight ugly. That's not pleasant. I think at this point you know that's how he is. It's not going to change, he isn't a teenager.

If he is ok with you calling and texting and begging for his attention and showing your suffering and he is still not talking, that's not the kind of man one needs to be with. Pretty cruel.

So no when things are right with the right person, there should be no such suffering as what you described. Not at all

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