My partner has admitted that she doesn't find me attractive sometimes because of my mental health. Right now I don't know if I will ever feel better so maybe she will never find me attractive. I feel like she doesn't find sex very appealing, it's always on her terms and she said it makes her cringe when I ask if we are going to have sex soon, but I only ask because I feel like otherwise it just isn't going to happen. Is this a part of my mental health problems or is it normal to be worried about how often we have sex? Right now I feel like a sex pest again. I drain her so much with my mental health, I think sex has become a chore. She sees it as I think of sex as a reward, I see it as- hello I fancy you you're my partner I want to sleep with you!! Argh dunno what to do got myself in a state now and she's just gone to sleep and I feel like an idiot