She said nearly everything in the relationship revolves around me and sometimes she feels wether we have sex is the only thing she can control. She says when I've been a mope or drained her she doesn't feel attracted to me in that way, and that I always seem to mention it when I've done something good or made an extra effort and it's as if it's a reward. My sex drive is a lot higher than hers. I don't try it on during the week because she works. So then I think oh we can have sex because it's the weekend and there's always a reason, or she's not in the mood and then when I mention it it makes her cringe so she feels pressured to have sex and it becomes a chore. But I mention it because I can't just initiate it anymore for fear of it not being the right time and then I get impatient waiting for her to initiate. What's stupid is it makes me cry if I can't have it