Wow, Myzen, that is so way cool (to borrow the phrases of my students) that you protected your daughter from your parents' poison. That you can feel good about yourself for "doing your duty" as you perceive it to your parents. & knowing yourself and who you are and your values so well, that you could say, "No" calmly, gently, firmly, without vengeance.

Excellent growth! Excellent example for me!