T,
I know intellectually that I'd never have such an "emotionally intimate" relationship with you if we were anything other than psychologist-patient.
But T, I still want more of the "golden bubble" that the therapy hour can be -- your empathy, warmth, challenge, kindness, compassion, firmness, care...
How I wish I saw you more than once a fortnight. How I wish I didn't have to move countries and thus terminate from you in a year's time.
I grieve because I'll never be able to see you again. And even if I could, you would never acknowledge me.
Just like how I still miss ex T more than one and a half years later, and when I saw and heard her in the waiting room 2 weeks ago, it was as though she never ever ever spent a year with me -- as though I was just a stranger.
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