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Old May 28, 2016, 04:17 AM
Anonymous45127
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Originally Posted by Waterbear View Post
To text or not to text, I just want her to say she won't push me away and that we can talk about it. Oh me oh my, what am I doing.
Waterbear, has she explicitly said you can text etc?

I truly know how it feels, that desire to text.

I'm not "supposed to" text my T because she didn't give me her number or email or anything.

Then last Christmas I had a fair bit of alcohol with my psych meds and texted her personal social media account...

Went into the next session expecting to be punished or terminated but she she wasn't angry (I kept asking if she was angry because I was terrified).

She agreed that I was feeling lonely and hurting hence me tipsy reaching out to someone I had an emotional connection with.

She said I didn't do anything "wrong" because we had never discussed such boundaries and should have.

Then she told me her boundaries - I could text but she might not read and will not reply.