My son is 21 and he knows some days mom just stays in bed. He has a girlfriend now and isn't always reachable by phone because of this and that excuse. I have no other support system in case I have an emergency. Let me explain a bit. My husband is 23 years older than me (he is 67) and I'm always anxious that something happens to him and I have no one to turn to. I only have my two children and the older one lives far away and cannot be here in a hurry if we need help in an emergency. I also have limited access to transport as my youngest often takes my car to go out. I have huge issues with him not answering me on whatsapp. What if its an emergency? How do I explain to him that this situation sends me into a major panic attack when I can't reach him. Never mind the bipolar situation as well...