Crocus, would it be possible to outright discuss with it with him?
I've had a moment where I "broke the rules " / crossed T's boundaries in between session and then asked her next session if she was mad at me. She said no she wasn't angry, but I kept saying she could be hiding her anger because "it's not therapeutic for me for you to express anger towards me"
She said something like "Let me invite myself - not as a therapist, but myself fully into this space..." and we then talked about my breaking of boundaries.
So sorry if me talking about my experiences of therapy in other to commiserate / attempt to validate is annoying!
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