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Originally Posted by velcro003
I find this strange. She might not read them!? Who doesn't read a text when it comes through? I actually think it might be harder to do that than to actually avoid reading a text. That seems silly.
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Haha

I think she has me muted on the app (I should have clarified it's text messages through a social media app, not regular text messages) so my messages go through but she doesn't get notifications. Therefore she can choose to read (if she wants to) at her leisure.
I have some people IRL whom I do "peer support" with and I set them to mute too, (eg WhatsApp allows for it). This allows me to check only when I've the emotional energy to do peer support, without getting woken up by messages at 3am, while work texts and work calls still trigger notification sounds (I work in IT so I have to be available by smartphone 24/7...).