I would feel crushed by an email like that! What a jerk.

I agree about trying to find a psychodynamic therapist to help you with attachment, transference and boundaries. It is not your fault that you grew attached! I am guessing you had/have attachment issues with significant relationships and caretakers in your life. I may be wrong. It is common for people who have childhood attachment/boundary issues with parents/guardians to continue to have attachment/boundary issues in adulthood. But it needs to be acknowledged and worked on...not pushed away like this Pdoc did. Pfft.

My PrevT, once told me, "No matter how much I give (to me), it never seems to be enough." I told her, "That's how big the 'hole' is!"

Is there any possible way you can find a psychodynamic T....and also find a psychiatrist who prescribes your meds? Or can you find a T and ask your family doctor if s/he will prescribe your meds?