I think that if you feel uncomfortable about the crazy look in her eyes then that is your gut telling you this does not feel right to you. I think that the way that a T looks at you is really important. Finding the right T can take time, but I think that in the long run it is better to spend time searching around for someone who feels right. I have tried out 6 T's. The one I have now seems very normal. I think that being a T is a highly skilled job, and that only a proportion of T's out there can actually do it well.

I see that I'm not giving the same advice as others, I hope that all our thoughts help in your decision.