I have a story to tell ..........

My sister let her eleven year old daughter down in a big way in the worse way possible and this continued for several years, Claire the daughter by the age of 16 was so resentfull she left home and got pregnant, later married the fellow and had more children, she then went on to use the children as a pawn againts her mother for more years untill she reached thirty and called a halt to the relationship, making her mother miss the grandchildren in such a way that she had a breakdown.

Claire is still not happy, my sister is not happy and everyone blames my sister for the way Claire has turned out but pitys her at the same time, how much more can do to apolagise to Claire ? How much more can she pay ? She has finaly given up as Claire will not stop wanting her mother to pay and pay and pay in every way possible. So with a sad heart (deserved I believe) my sister gave up and said goodbye to them all.

This is a very sad but true story and there are no winners only sadness, I believe that in the best interest of everyone they have done the right thing and parted company, I hope your daughter accepts your offer of therapy and is willing for you to go along too so you can sort this out before it gets too far.