You're so right. Now that you mention that she does remind very much of people in my life. I was ignored and treated as insignificant most of my life and with her I try to explain myself and it doesn't matter how much I say and what I say it just doesn't make a difference. What she thinks and says is golden and I'm wrong because according to her my thinking is skewed. So I could never make sense to her. I've been used to that especially when j was a child because my word had no value. I figured this is just how it is and that someone else would just treat me the same or worse.