I got the misogynistic vibe too. There is nothing professional about comparing the client to "being in a relationship with a very needy woman who would not take "No" for an answer". It is wrong on so many levels. He could explain himself without that bull. He needs to own his part in stringing her along all these months like a manipulative douche.
This is the same T who told OP he probably wouldn't care if she killed herself. He has some serious problems of his own.