Well, I certainly hope you don't kill yourself ...

If you do, there will be a hole in this Universe where you're supposed to be and that will be a very sad thing!

It is time for you to empower yourself and get away from this toxic miasma of family stew in which you live! Until you do that, NOTHING ... And I Repeat ... NOTHING WILL EVER CHANGE!

I know it's difficult! I know it's hard! I walked away from my toxic family of origin 23 years ago with next to nothing on my back and no support from them whatsoever. It hasn't been easy, but I did it and I'm still standing ... And, SO CAN YOU!

My only regret is that it took me 33.5 years to do it! I hope you don't wait that long, because if you do, it will take that much longer and be all that much harder to heal and recover from the traumas that will continue to compound daily until you get away.

I don't care if you have to wash dishes, clean rooms, work behind the counter of some fast food joint or pull 3rd shift at a convenience store ...

Just. Do. It. ... !!!

Until you take that leap, you will never know what you're capable of because if your female parental unit is anything like mine was, she's got you pretty convinced that you'll never amount to anything and fall flat on your face without her! Eff That BS! That's all it is ... BS that's meant to continue to manipulate and control you!

Has my life turned out like I wanted it or envisioned it to be? ... NO!

It's turned out to be even better than anything I ever thought it could or would be! What with all the twists and turns, surprises and discoveries I've made about myself along the way, I never would have FOUND ME had I not walked off and left it all behind me all those years ago!

You deserve a life of your own, free from the intrusion of your family - especially your female parental unit (she has seriously crossed boundaries as far as where she ends and you begin goes) - And, as difficult as obtaining this freedom is, it's up to you to go for it.

I've come a long ways in 23 years, and I still have a ways to go, but it's nice to walk in the door at the end of the day and not have all that drama, trauma and abuse waiting on the the other side.

Hoping you can make your escape sooner than later, otherwise, it will just be more of the same old same old until you do!



Sincerely,
Pfrog!