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Originally Posted by Ruari
Maybe if you drained her, it'd be okay to let her sleep and cuddle when she wakes up? I know sometimes we feel super needy when we're in our crisis mode but if we don't allow our SO's to have their needs met, then they can't meet ours. Or they won't want to.
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Oh she is ok with me waking her up for a cuddle, it's if I try and talk about things she won't tolerate. She always tells me if I'm feeling really bad in the night to wake her up but I rarely do.
That particular night, she was the one who upset me with something she said and then I resented that I had to man up and cry it out by myself. Woke up yesterday it wasn't even a big deal don't know why I got so upset.