I am very affectionate and am very available for my fiancée in every sense but waking me up in the middle of the night for a cuddle wouldn't fly. I don't sleep well as it is and have a demanding job. Waking me up for any reasons other than emergency is uncalled for. I wouldn't be waking him up either. I think it's rather selfish to wake up ones partner because person is upset ( if it's not an emergency). It's ok when young children do it but not adults IMHO. Do you work? Have other outlets? Are you in therapy?

You two might benefit from couples therapy. It's overall sounds like a tough relationship



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