Pinksoil, I found my T on psychologytoday.com too! I wanted one close to my work, but most importantly I wanted to see what they looked like first! I liked that I could find one that "looked nice and understanding". I've been seeing her for a month and so far so good, I can't even imagine looking for 8 years for the right match. But I don't think I will ever tell T I found her based on a photo lineup.