I have been married for 2 months. Just after we got married my wife decided she wanted a certain person in her life as a friend. Also to sort old things out as they used to be together 2 years before i met her. I haven't liked their friendship. I said I didn't want her to be friends with her. One time we argued and she said she chooses the friend over me. She also promised a few times she would cut the friend out and that she needed one day to see her. But after seeing her she would come back and say she don't see the need to cut her out of her life because she wants to be friends with her because she is a very caring person. One time they had inappropriate chats and I said this is wrong I was furious and she only then realised that what they did was wrong. This friend also takes her out or they go have fun until the morning hours. One night this friend wanted to come pick her up in the middle of the night because they needed to talk things though about an argument. I feel this friend doesn't respect our marriage because she thinks she can just do whatever and not be bothered. What makes it worse is that my wife doesn't see anything wrong. They chat every day and every night till late. My wife gives the phone for me to read the messages but you can't tell if some messages have been deleted from the chat. I have told her I want to move so we can be far from this friend. But I don't see the point when she actually doesn't see anything wrong with this friend coming into our lives all the constant like a pest. Once also she spoke on the phone with her. And then she wanted to come around just to say hello. This friend does have feelings for her but she "Respects" my marriage. My wife says she loves me so much. But when I have a problem with her going out and chatting all the time then she says I am keeping her in a cage. This friend also doesn't see anything wrong with what they doing. My wife also spoke to a friend of hers about this and this friend said she should be friends with her. I don't see how you can take advice from people who has never been married. And I feel this friend is just a good person for the wrong reasons. That she constantly talks to her and wants to see her isn't normal for a friend.