He is a total asshole who should not be practicing. To me it's as simple as that. I am so disgusted with his letter that I don't want to add anything. I am so sorry you had to go through this. Don't think for a second that you did anything wrong and that your problems, whatever they may be, are to blame for this outcome. Also, don't listen to anyone who validates this peace of **** and his actions. The last thing you need to hear right now is someone validating his wrongful actions that harmed you. It's re-abuse and victim blaming, plain and simple, whether it's intentional or not. Take care of yourself and commit to your healing. Best of luck.