I couldn't imagine "playing" with a woman T. Or bantering. Or being candid. For example, on Friday I told my T, "I wanted to call you and tell you what an %#@&#! you are, but I really couldn't find a reason for calling you an %#@&#! this week, so that's why I didn't call."
For some reason I just can't imagine saying that to a woman.
My 1st T was a woman.