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I wonder if I have gone with the men as the women are harder to fool?
That thought came to mind and that makes me cringe as I felt that I have always worked to be honest. Does this thought ever pass anyone else's mind.

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I can't imagine being able to fool my T (a male). I think whether or not you can "fool" them is just a factor of your relationship, not their gender. For me, I'm just more comfortable with males. I think I'd be unwilling to listen to a female or take her suggestions. It's just who I am. But if you find that you hold back somehow with males, you could always try a female T. I think it's best to be where you're comfortable and able to grow though, so you'd have to decide that.

Okay that was rambling but hopefully there was a point in there somewhere.

Sidony