They can't share information but you can share information with them. Look into your laws about being comitted. Who's been handling her money? Depending on her age maybe assistance living is an option? You need a therapist your self to help support you with dealing with your mom. First thing she needs tho is a place to stay. Get her warrents takin care of then move her to a new area. Pick up as much of this mess as you can. Try to relax right now because she is safe.