Thing is, even if I try to be diplomatic now, like sincerely, people still think I'm being a beeyotch and are horrible to me or ignore my posts. I feel like - well I was gonna say I feel like an idjit. But I am not going to let others define how I feel. I can change, even if they can't. I wait to say something until I can be supportive. If other people think they can read my mind (like my brother or other relatives, or pcers) based on how I have acted in the past, well whatever. Well maybe I'm not being as supportive as I think I am, I guess that's a possibility. Some people are nice, I appreciate them going out of their way to thank or hug my posts.

See Ricky Nelson garden party - Ya can't please everyone, Ya got to please yourself.