In Texas it's illegal while she's in a psych ward for me to get POA... But she won't agree for me to be her payee while she's in there... So I am handling everything I can she just doesn't want me mess with anything she tells me she will handle it when she gets out but that could be 90 days and she's only 57. She has been homeless the 5 months she was off her meds and where she was staying in Oklahoma was a very bad area and she cannot go back there due to the fact 3/4 people told me them self they are plotting to kill her. I am just so scared because that's where she wants to go back... I am a mess if you couldn't tell. She thinks I don't care about her and that I planned all this out to out her in the psych ward... I am just trying to save her life.