There are times lately when I've thought about asking for a hug or comfort. Even sitting beside me rubbing my upper back or holding my hand. One time I was leaving my session. My male therapist put his hand out like he was about to touch my shoulder. He didn't. Another time he asked if my parents comforted me growing up. I said no. I told him my surgeon has patted my back a few times and it didn't bother me. I really have never experienced a comforting touch and sometimes wish someone would do it