Yeah...relationships involve compromise, and accommodating for another person's needs, wants, desires, and etc, because you like and maybe eventually love them and want to spend time with them and include them in your life. And hopefully they do this for you, too, because they like and eventually love you and etc. I know married couples who have been together, happily, for decades, who have separate bedrooms (mainly because one snores or some other logistical or sleep issue, not an affection issue). You could also choose the committed dating thing; there isn't anything inherently wrong with that, as long as the other person is on board with it, and it's something that is clear early on. However, in order to date someone, you have to actually want to be with another person. From this post, it doesn't sound as though that is the case. Maybe you haven't found the right person, or maybe you've had some disappointing relationships (I've been there, and have felt similarly in the past) but until having another person around doesn't feel so...irritating, for lack of a better word...maybe being alone and enjoying your own company for a while wouldn't be a bad idea.