Caught in between words. Do you have to love every member? Yes... love human nation as a whole... that I want to do... but I find it hard to love everyone in the same way. Chemistry... or call it what you want... some just don't match very well. Can you still be nice towards those you don't find yourself mentally "attracted" to? My personal answer is- YES.

"A friend" what is that?

To me it's:
...someone who wants what is best for you.
...someone who sees you for who you are and still loves you
...someone who listens without the purpose to judge
...someone who is unselfish
...someone who gives you space when you need to be alone and still knows that you love him/her
...someone who proves to be honest and trustworthy... through both actions and words
...someone who can cry... laugh... together with you
...someone who takes initiative to show compassion and love
...someone who doesn't brag to over glow you
...someone ready to be there in all weathers... even when it takes some extra effort
...someone ready to forgive
...someone who is loyal
...someone is a FRIEND
...someone is also oneself
to keep a friend... be a friend- be a someone!

What is "a friend" to you???