I said "yes," but I've also signed paperwork allowing my T, marriage counselor, and p-doc to communicate with each other about me (and I can take that permission back any time I want). My T is particularly careful about this, and will explicitly ask me if it's OK to share a certain thing I've said with one or both of them. (Or is like, "Don't worry, I won't mention any of this to MC" if I'm talking about him.) Which I appreciate. She also consulted about me anonymously with another T there who I don't see (with my permission) when I shared with T my feelings for my MC, and she was trying to figure out the best approach for me to deal with that.