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Old May 30, 2016, 07:27 PM
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Dang it. Typically it means " not ready for a relationship with no one else" or " hope to reconcile with ex" or who knows what else. Heck why even joining dating site. But at least he is up front about it.

On the other hand I did this kind of thing before too. Didn't think straight. Attempted to date right after 9 year long relationship. Was a very bad idea. I also dated right after divorce. Was also a bad idea

. My t recommends to wait a minimum of a year ( if it was serious long term relationship or marriage not just few dates). So how long has he dated her? And how long ago did they break up?

I once went on a first date and a guy told me right on a first date that he is in love with his ex. Ok man why not tell me that before the first date to save me time and baby sitter fee? I could be doing 100 other things now. Like stay home with my kid not waste it here with you. Gee.

What was the context that he shared that? Why did he bring it up?

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