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Originally Posted by BunYip
Sorry to obsess about this. Considering my T said that he felt he was being mean to me do you think there might be feelings from his side? It only just occurred to me forgive me if i am a bit slow. Or is this another manipulation as per SD theory but everytime i challemge him he denies it.
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what do you mean by feelings from his side? Do I think they can recognize where they have screwed up? Yes I think it not impossible. I think they only admit it as some sort of manipulation - but many people would disagree with me.
Do you mean that such a phrase from a therapist would mean feelings other than as someone hired to be a therapist who had screwed up? then no - I don't.
I definitely do not believe you can make anyone feel anyway. And especially not a therapist.