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Originally Posted by dwr3
divine1966, sure, you're right, but then growing up with narcissistic people, you get super hypervigilant over such things.
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For sure. I agree and understand , I have to watch for certain things too.
My parents are very good with gift giving but it sometimes a substitute for emotional availability, which my parents very much lacking. That's why i am trying not to get hung up on gifts. My brother gives hideous gifts but he is emotionally available in times of need. My parents give great gifts but they aren't there emotionally when needed.
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