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SecretGarden said:
What is the thought behind chosing a therapist that the male vs female thing might make a difference. I know that after a while I thought my male pdoc became somewhat unisex or .... I was able to talk about pretty much anything.

What is the female/male thing and did it make a difference when you chose your pdoc or T?

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It seems to me that you are comfortable with him and are able to trust him.
I have always chosen a female because I feel very uncomfortable with a male. It goes back to the type of relationships that I have had with men.