Thank you fuzzy,

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It's not working. I still read posts that hurt me
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when people tell their vulnerable truth it makes me feel better more than any (or nearly all) advice could.
It really helps, the things you say, I wonder what it takes for us to feel less so, so, vulnerable, I mean .. well for me it gets unmanagable, I'm sure thats not necassary, .. maybe we could both keep a watch and see what if anything makes it better.
It has been an issue for me all my life, on and off.
riverx