The rage you are continually feeling about many different things seems to be a growing issue. I don't know if you are in offline therapy, but if not, I strongly suggest looking into it as talking to a professional may help you to navigate these thoughts. They tend to grow and become more self-destructive when you try to deal with them on your own.

I agree with the previous commenter; you can't avoid men forever. They are talking you you because you are an attractive, young, adult female and they want to get to know you. There is no harm or crime in that, and how are they to know how angry and standoffish you are inside? They are only doing what is generally considered normal. If you don't want to talk to them, politely decline. But it is not inherently their fault you are angry inside.