My therapist has a peer supervision group, and a few times he has mentioned speaking about me to another therapist he trusts a lot. He always makes a big deal about how he does not identify me. I don't mind this at all. A few times I know he has felt very bad about something I was going through, and I think it is good that he was able to talk about the effect of my sadness on him with other people. I prefer him to be able to lighten the load so it doesn't leak out on me in any way.