I find I have a nice balance with a male pdoc and a female T. At the start I don't think I would have done well with a male T. I had too much fear of men. Now it would be a different story and might do me some good. I can't even imagine a female pdoc, but it would be interesting to reverse the two. Only I'm terribly attached to my pdoc. And I wouldn't know how to start over in therapy with someone new. I wouldn't know how to end the current relationship with T.