(((secret))) I am so happy to see you back here but not happy that you are hurting at the moment.

My mother has BPD and after reading BPD demystified I'm wondering why my T hasn't mentioned it to me quite frankly...I'll bet he's afraid I'll smack him

I have a T and a p-doc, try and keep those separate if you can. One for the meds and one for the therapy that is just a suggestion.

As for finding a therapist, I like what Sunny suggested about the Humanistic orientation. If for some reason, I parted with my T, I'd be looking for a T like hers...I need empathy, disclosure, family systems etc...I just can't see myself leaving my T at this point but he is moving one day so who knows.

Take care of yourself, and welcome back...