Hello people Iam new to this. I have been living among a abusive extended family. Its a arranged marriage and after marriage i found out there was lot of hidden information including a large student loan that i have to take over and she cannot work as she had no status to even own a savings account. I never complaint about it worked hard and bought her to stand on her own leg. but now my sister in law saw us coming up and its trying to ruin our marriage. He talks bad about my parents and advises my wife to send them out of my house. she calls her and talks to her from work for 3 to 4 hours a day and does not allow her to take care of my children. advises not to feed me and she never allowed to go to my parents house even once after marriage my SIL told not to go to my parents house. Recently my SIL lost her job and started going to school and dint have any one to takecare of her kid. She advised my wife to quit her job and come to her place. and my wife took all the belongings(money, gold, immigration documents and my daughter) and never answered my phone.

My wifes parents informed all my relatives and parents that i have been abusing her and treating her like a slave and asking me to apologize him to send my wife and kids back to our house my wifes family is trying to hide what my SIL did and they are lied a lot to people around. I managed to get my wife back but my parents and my brothers who are immigrant to this country has stepped back and never talk to me. They told if their family accuse them of any false charges it might take time to prove its wrong and they wont have any earnings till that time and there are no finincial backup.

Right now Iam abandoned by my family. Their family trash talk about me and my family with my daughter/wife on speaker. My wife does no share any information/money with me and does not want to meet any counsellor if she happened to talk she tells them with tears that nothing like that has happened.I live this painful and abusive life for my daughter and son but just because she is a woman she escapes showing some fake tears and telling them i abuse her.

I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO AND I CANT TAKE IT ANY MORE I CANT EAT OR SLEEP ANY MORE.