I don't think they will ever see what happened - they attack you to take the blame off of themselves and as has been stated seem to me to be toxic

DO you love what you do? if so focus on that - and all the positives there are in your life - if they don't accept your daughter don't accept them - you may need to distance yourself from them - but yes I know how hard that is to do

My father was toxic for many reasons - but I ended up the only one he had that would talk to him when he got sick and eventually passed - so I know its hard to let go even when you know they are wrong for your health and your mental state

please remember this - their problems are their problems - don't let them be yours - don't let their anger and hurt affect you if at all possible - its enough to be you -