I'm a photographer. It has been a while since I did any modeling shoots because it's completely insane. I'm a female who shot female models beside male photographers. Guess what we did when the shoot was over? Went to a bar to get away from the models. It's a mind numbing experience. Models are much like bridezillas, demanding and insecure, hypersensitive and then the crying. Then they had to go back into make up because they cried their make up off. It's hard to imagine anyone being attracted to a model during a shoot. It's a hard job, both modeling and then us, the silent judges behind the camera. If we change the lighting or have to spend a lot of time instructing them, there are going to be tears. My patience was always worn thin, so I don't shoot models anymore.

That being said, I don't know this guy. If he isn't doing it professionally, then it would be an entirely different experience, probably no tears and the models aren't aware of every blemish.

In regards to the rest, he made it clear that he wants a casual relationship and at the time you accepted. If that has changed for you and not for him, I'd run now. It's self defeating to be in a one sided relationship.


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