I am not saying he isn't available as a friend or as a sex partner.

He just isn't available for a serious romantic relationship and doesn't want to be your boyfriend. I don't know why but he is up front and honest about it.

If you two are ok with staying friends and having sex then i don't see the issue here. Two consented adults are free to do so. If however you want more such as exclusivity and serious romance, then he isn't going to go for it as he honestly stated. I don't think it matters if he is a photographer or not

. I don't know about paranoia but your jealousy is understandable. He isn't exclusive and isn't serious with you which means he possibly seeing other women. Feeling jealous is normal under circumstances. It doesn't make you crazy.

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