So sorry.

I am the very last person to advice in regards to money. Handling money ( or rather not handling) is one of my issues, something i try to improve on. So there is no judgement on your maxing up credit cards or stolen money etc been there done that.

You do need to keep your purse on you at all times when on the flights. Yes thieves are bold. I once had a thieve sticking his arm all the way up to his elbow into my purse in the restaurant. My purse was on the window seal by my table.

I am more concerned with you not having your own money and him controlling it like this. Many or in fact most spouses have combined finances but both have access to accounts. It seems too stressful to live this way. Why aren't you both equally have access to join accounts? He does sound controlling

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