I think it would be better to go into detail. Sometimes I feel as if I've talked my past to death. I get to wondering what the point is, since I can't change it by talking about it. But then it rears its ugly head again, like if my sweetie or someone else says something that disproportionately hurts my feelings, and I need to stop and evaluate where those strong emotions came from.

Defintely the fact that you have trouble being affectionate with your husband would signal a need for exploration.