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Old Jun 01, 2016, 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted by artemis-within View Post
What does one do (besides drink more wine) when they are completely consumed by hatred for their idiotic spouse?

no answer needed. I'm just going to drink til I fall asleep and not talk to him.
Contempt is not, from what I have read, a good sign in a marriage.
Is there anyway to separate yourself from his interactions with others? Like just let him be him without you needing to take on what you think is wrong with how he goes about things? It seems to stress you out a lot. I would not think it a fun way to live if one was drinking to avoid the person I lived with.
Of course, I am not great at living full time with anyone else - so what do I know about it.
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